Parental alienation occurs when one parent engages in behavior that undermines the relationship between the child and the other parent, often with the intention of limiting or eliminating the other parent’s role in the child’s life. This behavior can take many forms, including:

• Speaking negatively about the other parent: This can include making derogatory comments or criticisms, or attributing negative motives to the other parent.

• Interfering with contact: This may involve limiting or preventing the child’s contact with the other parent, or failing to comply with court orders or agreements regarding custody or visitation.

• Disrupting communication: This can include intercepting or blocking phone calls, emails, or other forms of communication between the child and the other parent.

• Encouraging rejection: This involves actively encouraging the child to reject or avoid the other parent, often by using tactics such as guilt-tripping, manipulation, or bribery.

• Involving the child in disputes: This may involve discussing legal or financial issues with the child, or using the child to pass messages or gather information about the other parent.

Parental alienation can have serious negative effects on the child’s well-being and development, including:

• Increased stress and anxiety: The child may feel caught in the middle of the conflict, and may experience anxiety or stress as a result.

• Decreased self-esteem: The child may feel that they are being forced to choose between their parents, which can lead to feelings of guilt or low self-esteem.

• Confusion and instability: The child may feel uncertain or confused about their relationship with the other parent, which can lead to instability in their emotions and behavior.

• Long-term damage to the parent-child relationship: If parental alienation is not addressed, it can lead to a breakdown in the relationship between the child and the targeted parent, which can have long-term effects on the child’s well-being and development.

It is important to recognise the signs of parental alienation and to seek help if you believe that you or your child is experiencing this behaviour. An experienced family law professional can help you to understand your legal rights and options, and can work with you to create a plan for co-parenting that is in the best interests of the child.